Monday, September 26, 2011

My belated birthday party!!

Just had a wonderful birthday celebration, no birthday cake, no balloons, just alcohol  with all my love ones. It was a crazy night and i actually expected that alot would pass out and lay on the floor like nobody business. Too bad, although alot got really wasted that night, no one actually sleep like a deadbody on the floor. IShhhhh *big disappointed*

 *Likey*







With Eugene, Andrew, Ester and Louis. =))


Got potential June! Keep it up! LOL


I looked abit tipsy in this picture. LOL


Before the party, 4 sexy beasts.


 Love Peter's facial expression. HAHA!



Will actually jealous of this picture. HAHA! Don't lar will. 

Anyway, thanks for all who dropped by or came to this party. * hugs and kisses*
 Thanks for your contribution and corporation. We will party soon ya =))

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Don't judge ME!


Matthew 7:1-5
" Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your's brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your owe eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ' Let me take the speck out of your eye.' when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speak out of your brother's eye."

People like to judge people by their external appearance. Well, no wrong. Its natural that people make judgments about a person based on their first impressions. This is normal that people judge by his or her looks, When people say that, " arhh..i don't care how she/he looks like, i don't give a damn." Bull shit, i don't F believe it. When we know someone get into a relationship, first thing we may ask " is his gf pretty?" or " how does the boyfriend look like". 


People always judge me by my looks and come up with these (grrrrr....) ---->>' she must be a party queen!",." she must be working cause she looks....", "she must be a playgirl.", ' she must have alot of boyfriends" and blah blah blah....Talking about my appearance, i have a tattoo on my upper back and a belly piercing which can't be seen easily unless i wear bikini. HAHA. My hair colour is close to blonde.



Well,  I love party and make friends. It's nothing wrong about it, i may have a very strong character which i never hold back from expressing my opinion.  Let me introduce myself, I'm a former Deputy Head Prefect, a very naughty one; Bad SPM results pushed me to study my ass off for my STPM,  I scored almost 4 flat in my STPM luckily, and that has given me a chance to fulfil my dream as a lawyer. Thanks to my father, my family athletic gene allows me to win some nice trophies in sport. I won the best female athlete twice in school, once when i was form 4( if im not wrong) and another one when i was form 6, just because all the seniors were busying prepare their finals. I have been playing volleyball since i was 9, and now playing for UM, just the passion though I'm not a really good player. I'm stubborn, i don't usually take others' suggestion or change my mind. When I want or have a desire to something, its certainly that i gonna make it happen. Thing which i have decided and it wont  be changed unless there is a part of impossibility that render it impossible to perform.


I don't think i can be a playgirl. Haha! i aint qualified for that. I actually hate playboys and big time liars. They're just too horrible. I'm not saying that lying is inherently wrong. There must be a reason u lie. There is a huge difference between white lies and lies, make it clear to yourself.  After all, we're all liar, what kind of liar you wanna be depends on what kind of lie you wanna make. 


Yeah, i may be young, but AGE to me, its not an issue of mind over matter. I might have experienced or dealt or seen something that allowed me to grow and go out of my comfort zone.



John Heywood once said,:" If you will call your trouble experiences, and remember that every experience develops some latent force within you, you will grow vigorous and happy, however adverse your circumstances may seem to be."

Its not even a matter when it comes to relationships. Who says that women can only get married at the age of 27-30 years old. Who says that having a baby at the age of 18 or 45 is wrong? As long as its legal, you think you're ready and mature enough to handle all challenges, why not? No one gonna stop you.


Don't judge me just because you think you're prettier than me( or vice versa)
Don't judge me just because you're smarter than me.
Don't judge me just because you come from a rich family.
Don't judge me just because I'm younger than you.


Albert Einstein once said, : " Whoever undertakes to set himself up as a judge or Truth and Knowledge is shipwrecked by the laughter of the gods."


Thomas Jefferson, :" We should never judge a president by his age, only by his works,'

Judgements prevent us from seeing the good that lies beyond appearances.

Don't judge people before you discover what they're really all about. Impression can often be misleading and couched in your own biases. Get to know people before you decide you don't like them. We have to remember that people are different. What might be funny to you might be offensive to someone else.
Before judging me or others, look at yourself in the mirror first and smile. You will know.


With love,
Alane