Life full of ups and downs, people come into your life and people leave with or without marks... you just have to trust that life has a road mapped out for you. No matter what they've done to you, forgive and forget, move on and get over it. No point to keep it in mind.
"i can forgive, but i cannot forget, is only another way of saying. I WILL NOT FORGIVE. Forgiveness ought to be like a cancelled note- torn in 2, and burned up, so that it never can be shown against one." Henry Ward Beecher
But how many people can do that? Holding resentment is like eating poison and waiting for the other person keel over. Does it makes you suffering? i do! so i always choose to "not to think about it, time heals all. Tomorrow is a better day! Weeeee~ ~!" cause i believe that, anger makes you smaller, while forgiveness force you to grow beyond what you were. Passionate hatreds can give meaning and purpose to an empty life. Think about it! These people haunted by the purposelessness of their lives try to find a new content not only by dedicating themselves to a holy cause but also by nursing a fanatical grievance. A mass movement offers them unlimited opportunities for battle. Do they ever get tired of this? yes, i do! But i will never feel tired of fighting for the purpose of self-improvement. ( sometimes, i do! LOL especially during my exam! urrghh, it kills me softly and the results kill me instantly!)
Good day =)